Chat Room Sex Made My Marriage Stronger

I hear people putting down chat rooms all of the time.  According to these people, chat rooms are the reason why so many marriages are falling apart and are responsible for breeding sexual deviants.  I think that is just a bunch of bologna.  First of all, marriages were falling apart before these chat rooms every popped up and there have always been people with freaky sexual fantasies.  Chat rooms haven’t done a thing to change that.

If you ask me, someone that takes his or her sexual chat room fantasies to the next level is in a marriage that was already in trouble to begin with.  We all fantasize.  We all want to feel desirable.  By chatting with someone online about these fantasies, it helps to fulfill these needs without actually stepping out on your spouse.

In my opinion, chatting with someone about sex online is only cheating if you try to hide it and if you feel you are doing something wrong.  My husband and I like to visit these chat rooms and discuss our sexual fantasies with other people.  We find it to be a real turn on – not only to talk to someone about sex, but also to see each other turning someone else on.  After all, it is kind of nice knowing that someone else out there wants your man, but you are the one that gets to be with him.

I know a lot of people will disagree with me.  They think that just thinking about having sex with someone else is cheating.  These people are full of themselves and it makes me sick.  If they were honest with themselves, they would admit that they occasionally fantasize about someone else.  There is nothing wrong with that.  In fact, I think it is healthy.  A mature person that is in a strong relationship knows the boundaries and won’t take it beyond just sexually teasing someone on the Internet or playing out a few fantasies.

For me and my husband, these chat rooms have actually helped to improve our sex lives.  Not only does it get us worked up to talk to other people in the chat rooms, it has also given us a few great ideas for in the bedroom.  The experimenting we have done as a result of chatting about our fantasies and the fantasies of others has helped us achieve some of the best sex we have ever had.