A Chat Room Destroyed My Marriage

I used to think that it was no big deal for somebody to talk about sex with someone else in a chat room.  After all, you aren’t actually touching anyone or doing anything for real when you hook up in a chat room.  All you are really doing is making each other feel good and get a little excited.  Heck, if you would have asked me a year ago, I would have said that talking sexually with someone in a chat room is good for a marriage.  After your wife gets all worked up with some sucker in the chat room, she turns around and gives it to you.

Boy was I mistaken.  I found out a few months ago just how dangerous these chat rooms can be.  In fact, my marriage is probably going to be over because of them.

You see, about a year ago or so, I started spending time in these chat rooms and talking to the women I met about my fantasies.  I thought it was great because I got to live out all of these crazy fantasies that I would never dare talk to my wife about.  These chicks meant nothing to me, though, so I didn’t have a problem cutting loose.

At first, it was no big deal.  I would get myself turned on with these girls and then I would hook up with my wife.  It seemed like a win-win situation.  Then I met Candi.

Candi was really wild.  When we chatted online, she made every one of my fantasies come true.  It started off innocently enough, but then Candi started hinting that she would like to really hook up with me and take care of my fantasies in real life.  I resisted at first.  I love my wife and I never wanted to do anything to hurt her.  The more Candi pushed and the more pictures she showed me….well, my curiosity just got the best of me and I couldn’t resist meeting her.

So, to make a long story short, I decided to meet Candi at a bar in town.  She was smokin’ hot and she was dressed to the hilt.  It was as if all of my sexual dreams were coming true.  She wore the spiked heel boots I told her I loved on a woman along with the pleated, schoolgirl skirt. When I approached her, she told me she wasn’t wearing any panties, grabbed my hand, and proved it to me by guiding it to touch her.

I went weak in the knees.  I had to have her.

That one moment of weakness has likely destroyed my marriage.  Now that I look back on it, I think part of me really was looking for someone to hook up with.  Otherwise, why would I have been talking to these strange women about my deepest, darkest sexual fantasies?  To me, any married person that goes to these chat rooms and looks for a man or woman to chat with is trying to find someone to fill a hole in their marriage.  I am living proof that getting caught up in these chat rooms is a bad idea.