With an increase in the availability of modern technology, the stresses and demands of modern life and the shifts of peoples attitudes to relationships, sexuality and marriage there is an increasing number of people who are unhappy with their current relationship and so seek to find some measure of “happiness” in infidelity. If you think that your wife maybe cheating on you, then this article will provide you with some tips and advice as to how to determine if they are indeed straying.

Have a think about if your wife has had a noticeable change in habit and or personality recently. Has your partner been mean irritable and defensive, flaring up and over reacting at slight problems? Perhaps they are more withdrawn, secretive and generally unresponsive. Has there been a lack of sexual interest? Perhaps they have not been as intimate as before, or as willing to make love.

One key method of maintaining illicit contact with a secret partner is via the internet, as being absent for long periods of time draws too much attention, and if your partner spends disproportionate amounts of time online, becomes possessive and territorial about such computer usage and is not willing to disclose what they are doing, then this should raise a major red flag. More often than not, the suspected cheater will delete their internet history so as to destroy any evidence of what sites they have visited.

They will often spend time online at unusual times as well, perhaps in secret, say when you go
to bed. Has your wife developed a new hobby or interest, one that is somewhat surprising and unusual, one which they are dismissive or even evasive about explaining, and which requires only sole activity thereby leaving you alone? Perhaps a partner previously completely switched off by sports now has a passionate interest for a new sport.

Another area that will be the best place to look out for is money. Keep an eye out for unusual behaviour in regards to money and finances, perhaps there is a new credit card, more letters from the bank claiming that the account is overdrawn etc. What about the spending habits of the partner themselves though? Is she spending more money than before particularly on her appearance, buying sexy clothing, underwear and cosmetics? If this increased spending and dedication to her appearance is matched by a general cold or distant attitude to you then this of serious concern.

What you have to remember that is none of the above conditions can be used as a fail-proof, definite indication of guilt or impropriety, but must be viewed carefully in conjunction with other evidence.